For parents & families
Your child's shidduch, with the care you'd give it yourself.
No browsing, no swiping, no profile floating around the internet. Send in the résumé you already have and it becomes the profile; the system does the searching and brings suggestions one at a time. The moment both sides are interested, a real shadchan picks up the phone — and nothing personal is shared without a yes.
The questions you'd ask — answered before you have to ask them.
Start with the résumé you already have
Upload the shidduch résumé that's already going around and it fills out the profile for you — background, family, what you're looking for. You read it over and correct anything. No long forms, and the office will do it for you if you'd rather.
The searching is done for you
No one can hold hundreds of résumés in their head. Every week the system reads through the whole pool — kehila, learning, family background, location, and what your family asked for — so only the few worth a real look reach you.
A proper résumé, nothing more
The other side sees what a shidduch résumé would tell them — name, background, family picture. Phone numbers, address, exact birthday, and children's names stay sealed until both sides say yes.
A shadchan takes it from there
Every shadchan on the platform is vetted before they can see a single profile, and your family chooses which of them to work with — up to three. Once both sides are interested, your shadchan picks up the phone and carries the shidduch the traditional way, families and all. No computer ever made a shidduch, and none will here.
Parents stay part of the process
The profile carries what families actually weigh — kehila, learning, family background, references. When there's a mutual yes, the shadchan brings it to the parents the way it's always been done.
Second marriages, without the awkwardness
For a divorced or widowed child, the intake handles children, custody, and halachic details with discretion — and matching accounts for the situation instead of ignoring it.
Your information stays yours
Pause visibility during a shidduch, limit the profile to chosen shadchanim only, and export or delete everything whenever you decide. No phone calls, no arguing.
Honest pricing, no surprises
A free plan (Open Door) for working with your shadchanim; $30/month (The Search) adds weekly matched suggestions. Cancel anytime. That's the whole price list.
Common questions from parents
Is this appropriate for our community?
It was built for it — by people from it. The intake speaks our language (kehila, learning, yichus, minhagim), the process keeps shadchanim in charge, and there is nothing here that works like a dating app.
Can we set up the profile together with our child?
Yes, and most families do. The simplest way is to upload the shidduch résumé you already send around — it fills out the profile on its own and you refine it together from there. If you'd rather not do it yourselves, send the résumé to the office and they'll set it up for you.
Is a computer picking for our child?
No. The system does the searching — the part no shadchan has the hours for — and brings up the few candidates worth a real look. Every one of them is reviewed by a vetted shadchan, nothing moves without your child's yes, and once both sides are interested a shadchan runs the shidduch by phone exactly the way it's always been done. We're not taking shadchanim out of shidduchim; we're giving them back their time.
Who decides whether a suggestion goes forward?
Your child does — every suggestion waits for an explicit “ready to date” before anything moves. A pass is private: the other side is never told who declined or why.
What if we already have a shadchan we trust?
Perfect — ask them to join (it's free for shadchanim). Your child picks them on the platform and can limit visibility so only that shadchan sees the profile.